With every January comes the resolutions and game plan for the next year. How
do I want to grow and change? What form of success do I want to have during the next twelve months? Most people spend a lot of time trying to be successful, whether personally or professionally. There is a lot of excellent material available to help us be successful in our businesses as well as in our private lives. However, many of us don’t
know how to recognize our own successes nor do we know what to expect once we attain our goals.
Because we are naturally oriented to be constantly growing and changing, it is not uncommon for us to work all the way around our successes, not even acknowledging that they have occurred. It is a good idea to take some time on a regular basis and compare where you are today with where you were six months ago, a year ago, and five years ago.
It is amazing that we can accomplish so much but get lost in the day-to-day details and not recognize that we have, in fact, succeeded. Instead of trying so hard to become a success, we need to focus more of our energy on enjoying the success we have already attained.
Take a few moments right now and think of your life five years ago. What did
you want then? What was the most important thing you wanted to accomplish? What
other goals did you have at the time? How many of these have come to pass – or how
many do you no longer care about? Recently a friend of mine was remembering herself ten years ago when she was just beginning to work after graduating from college. She remembered seeing someone in the grocery store with a twenty dollar bill. “If only I had twenty dollars to spend on groceries,” she remembered agonizing to herself.
Today she is manifesting $20,000 to pursue her dreams. She is a success – $20 comes easily these days – even while she is pursuing new goals. This is true of all of us if we will only take the time to be grateful for and to enjoy our accomplishments instead of just focusing on whatever it is we are trying to attain.
When we are successful, things happen on both the inner and outer levels.
Internally, we’ll find ourselves wondering, “What’s next?” Which way do I want to grow
now? What is my next mountain to climb? Do I want to expand my business or do I want to start something new?
This is perfectly natural and to be expected. When looking at our current level of
proficiency, it is a good time to ask ourselves what sort of limits we are setting for
ourselves. How high are we willing to go? At what point do we not want to grow any
further? There seems to be an unspoken rule that businesses should always keep
expanding. This is not always the case. Sometimes a person reaches a certain level and really doesn’t want to take the next step. Because nature won’t allow anyone or anything to stand still for any length of time, such an individual would need to look at ways to deepen or enhance what they are currently doing.
For instance, a massage therapist who really doesn’t want to enlarge their practice
by taking on more clients could enhance their business by learning new forms of body
work to offer his or her current clients. A store owner could find new lines of items to
carry rather than feeling they have to open a second store. Success demands that we
continue to grow in some way. The direction is up to us.
In many cases, though, there will be an internal urge to expand what we’re doing
and that is when we will need to find out how unlimited we really perceive ourselves to
be. Sometimes, we’ll try and try to go beyond a certain point only to discover we have
some sort of blockage that allows us only so much success and no more. If this happens, it’s time for some inner searching and clearing so we can keep progressing the way we feel guided.
Also with success comes new outer circumstances for us to handle. It is not
uncommon for successful people to find personal attacks and jealousy coming their way. People who are not living their dreams sometimes lash out and focus their unhappiness on those around them who are successful, when what they really want is to be successful themselves.
Successful people also report they seem to attract people who want to ride on the
success of others, want to control them, or who want to be “copy cats.” In the alternative spiritual community, one can be open to criticism for not being willing to hand over one’s success to others. I will never forget the successful store owner who was approached by more than one person asking for all his wholesale contacts – something it had taken years to develop – so, as the person said, “I can open a store just like yours down the street.” The person criticized the store owner for not being willing to “share.”
None of these have to be negative experiences, especially if they are seen for what they really are. As we grow, it is natural for us to be placed in situations which will foster further personal development. We are so used to learning through hardship and failure that it can be quite a shock to find out we can learn as much, if not more, from successfully reaching our goals.
If we find ourselves living the success we used to affirm and visualize, we need to realize we are at a new level of understanding and have attained a new ability to manifest on the material plane. Be happy, that means it is time to start a new curriculum!
I wish you the best in 2011 - I know it is going to be a grand year. if I can support you through a business consultation, class, or through my work with New Spirit Journal, please let me know. And if you want to be on my email list to receive emails like this one, click on the Join My List at the top of the New Spirit Journal Facebook page!
Love and blessings,
Krysta Gibson
New Spirit Journal
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P.S. After taking a year off from giving classes, I am offering some in the new year. On January 8th, I’m offering a 2-hour class called Traveling the Maze which gives tools to sort through the many different products and services that are available so you can decide what practices, teachings, or services might help you. Both beginners and seasoned travelers can enjoy this class.
February 5th, I’m offering a 2-hour class called Stewarding Your Business which will give tools that can help holistic business people reach their goals.
Each class costs $20 and will be held at the Whole Life Center in Auburn, Washington from 1:00-3:00 P.M. These two classes will be offered again in March and May at East West Bookshop in Seattle. To register for the ones in Auburn or for details, please go to my website www.krystagibson.com.